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そびれる
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sobireru
to miss a chance; to fail to do ~
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そびれる
sobireru
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to miss a chance; to fail to do ~
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JLPT Level N1
Advanced · Literary, rhetorical & rare forms
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📝 Usage Notes

to miss a chance; to fail to do ~

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Sobireru expresses missing an opportunity or failing to do something, often with a nuance of regret or a missed chance.

Attaches to Attach to the ます-stem of a verb (the form without ます). For example, 行く→行き, 食べる→食べ, する→し. The pattern is ます-stem + そびれる.

そびれる is a verb that combines with the ます-stem of another verb to indicate that the action was not performed, often because the right moment passed. It carries a sense of having missed a chance or failed to do something, and it often implies a slight regret or a feeling that the opportunity is gone. For instance, if you meant to ask a question but the timing was off, you might say 聞きそびれた (I missed asking). It is a compound verb, so the resulting form conjugates like a regular る-verb (e.g., そびれた, そびれます). It is commonly used in past tense to talk about missed opportunities that have already happened. Because it focuses on the failure to act, it is not used for intentional omissions; you wouldn't say 食べそびれた if you deliberately chose not to eat. This pattern is more common in written or formal speech, but it can be used in conversation when expressing a missed chance with a nuance of regret.

大事なメールを見落として、返信しそびれた。
Daiji na meeru o miotosshite, henshin shisobireta.
I overlooked an important email and missed the chance to reply.
電車が混んでいて、席に座りそびれた。
Densha ga konde ite, seki ni suwarisobireta.
The train was so crowded that I failed to get a seat.
彼に会いたかったのに、タイミングが合わずに会いそびれた。
Kare ni aitakatta noni, taimingu ga awazu ni aisobireta.
I wanted to meet him, but the timing didn't work out, so I missed the chance.
Not ~そこなう ~そこなう can also mean 'to fail to do', but it often implies that the failure was due to an accident or mishap, and it can be used with a wider range of verbs. ~そびれる emphasizes missing the opportunity due to timing or hesitation. For example, 壊しそこなう (fail to break) sounds like you tried but failed, while 壊しそびれる is not common.
Register This pattern is somewhat formal and is more common in written Japanese or careful speech; in casual conversation, you might hear it, but it's not as frequent as other expressions like ~忘れる or ~損なう.
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What does the grammar pattern そびれる mean? ▼
To miss a chance; to fail to do ~
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Nihoner currently groups this pattern under JLPT N1 — Advanced · Literary, rhetorical & rare forms. Use the level label as study guidance rather than a prediction of what will appear on an exam.
How do you use そびれる in a sentence? ▼
Attach そびれる (sobireru) to the appropriate verb or noun form as described in the usage notes. Then try writing two original sentences — one about yourself and one about something around you.
Is そびれる formal or casual Japanese? ▼
そびれる is used in formal or written contexts. You will see it mainly in written texts, news, business Japanese and academic contexts.
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Use the flashcard on this page for active recall — see the pattern, reconstruct the usage from memory, then flip. Follow with the 4-choice quiz to distinguish it from similar patterns. Review later the same day and again over the following days. Writing original sentences can help you practise using the pattern in context.