and (list neg. things happening at same time)
Lists multiple negative or chaotic things happening at the same time, emphasizing the overwhelming nature of the situation.
This pattern is used to enumerate two or more undesirable or troublesome events or states that occur simultaneously, creating a sense of being overwhelmed or at wit's end. It is typically found in spoken Japanese but has a slightly emphatic, almost complaining tone. The items are usually repeated with the same type of action or feeling, but they can be different. The construction ends with で, which can be followed by a verb expressing distress (like 困る, 大変だ) or be left as a standalone exclamation. This pattern can also be used with adjectives and nouns to describe negative states, e.g., 忙しいわ、疲れるわで.